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It may feel easier to believe overgeneralisations, but that does not mean you are dealing with reality.
~ Lilly Hope Lucario
People cope with trauma, abuse and child abuse – in many different ways.
And there are many others too.
I totally understand and have compassion for anyone using these ways to cope.
I understand people are doing the best they can at this time.
But, where I have issues – is when people using these ways of coping – then tell everyone else they should be doing the same. When that is very unhealthy advice.
I see this occurring a lot.
The ways people cope, are very understandable – but often not healthy, or promoting healing.
There is a lot of bad advice out there, about what is required for healing.
And I see this all the time. Which saddens me, because people are believing it.
And there is a lot of shaming goes on too.
That’s not what I want for anyone.
In challenging the unhealthy advice given – I am showing compassion – because my motivation for doing all I do – is for people to heal and move towards better lives.
~ Lilly Hope Lucario
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I love it when spiritual people actually have a depth of thinking, that sees through the BS and ‘gets it’.
From the article…
“The philosophy of positive thinking means being untruthful; it means being dishonest. It means seeing a certain thing and yet denying what you have seen; it means deceiving yourself and others.”
“Positive thinking is the only bullshit philosophy that America has contributed to human thought – nothing else. Dale Carnegie, Napoleon Hill, and the Christian priest, Vincent Peale – all these people have filled the whole American mind with this absolutely absurd idea of a positive philosophy.
And it appeals particularly to mediocre minds…
The negative is as much part of life as the positive. They balance each other.”
“You ask me: Am I against positive philosophy? Yes, because I am also against negative philosophy.
I have to be against both because both choose only half the fact, and both try to ignore the other half. Continue reading →