I know abuse is increasing. I’ve done my research. I know a lot about why. I know a lot about abusive types of people.
Abuse, is evil. I don’t tolerate abuse. I don’t condone abuse. I don’t enable abuse. This is more evil.
This does *not* mean I do not have compassion for the reasons abusers, abuse.
I have blogged about my compassion for abusers, their mental health issues, and how I wish I could change them, heal them, for ‘their’ sakes, as well as their victims.
But, that isn’t reality, and I know the reality, that abusers – abuse and abuse is increasing and this is not okay.
I believe in exposing abusers. Not for revenge. Not for retribution. But to help stop abuse from continuing, because for those with those certain personality disorders/traits and disorders like paedophilia, they will continue abusing. And only a fool, trusts them to stop.
I believe in going to the police and legal action being taken. Because, it is necessary to try to stop abusers, make them face their actions, to inform those, who need to know – especially the police, to have the information necessary to deal with it legally and as appropriately, as possible.
This is not about lack of forgiveness. Some will try to say it is.
Forgiveness – is never meant to be about ignoring abuse,
and avoiding dealing with it appropriately.
And forgiveness is not about blindly trusting them to stop.
Or accepting, what you know is a false apology.
Forgiveness, is not about cheap grace.