My in-laws are visiting at the moment. My husbands whole family are narcissistic, dysfunctional and selfish to the core.
I’ve heard the in-laws make this statement many times “We don’t like to get involved in other people’s business”. But, actually what this really is – is they are utterly selfish, care only about helping themselves, have no compassion and no empathy for others.
Along with all their other delusional beliefs, they actually choose to believe they are ‘good people’ by ‘keeping out of other people’s business’.
Which is complete BS.
I see more and more how selfish people are, and the BS they tell themselves to justify it.
My in-laws refuse to ever look after their grandchildren, refuse to help their adult children in any way, and yet think they are ‘amazing grandparents’. They are not, at all. And there is no evidence to show they are good grandparents, at all. They are completely able to help out in ways many grandparents choose to. But, they refuse to. They have never been good parents or grandparents.
It is amazing just how bizarrely deluded some people are.
Personally, I find selfish people draining and horrible to be around.
They are a waste of space on this earth.
The good people on this earth – care about others and know that…
Compassion is a verb
– it means you make an effort to help others. And you don’t have to ‘get into people’s business to help them. It’s not an ‘all or nothing’ situation. Continue reading