Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

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The Duggar revelations about incest. Another example of religious and toxic hypocrisy.

So the ‘perfect’ (Baptist) ‘Christian’ Duggar family, who demonised LGBT people, projected their very ‘right wing’, fundamental religious ways,……. have now had the incest that was covered up and kept quiet, exposed.

Typical scenario of a toxic religious, Bible bashing, church people’s home life. Secrecy, abuse, pretending to be what they not, harming others with their conservative, sociopathic views…… and are absolute hypocrites in the process.


Secrecy, covering up abuse, hypocrisy, toxic religiosity….. far more common than is realised.

And I agree, this is not something people should be taking delight in at all…….

“We have to remember, as we talk about this, that five little girls — at least five little girls — were abused and molested,” Savage said. “And there’s nothing here to take delight in or to celebrate.”

And the (religious) ‘treatment centre’ – he was sent to, is also abusive and harming, sexually abusing people.


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Love this Take Me To Church – Hozier …. “I’ll worship like a dog at the shrine of your lies”

Love how this is taking aim at the church and all the hypocrisy and hatred they all too often spew at gay people.

It is not just gay people, their hatred is aimed at… it is anything you do not follow along with like a blind sheep…. no matter how unhealthy, how lacking in empathy and no matter how far from Jesus it is.

“If the heavens ever did speak
She’s the last true mouthpiece
Every Sunday’s getting more bleak
A fresh poison each week”

“Take me to church
I’ll worship like a dog at the shrine of your lies
I’ll tell you my sins so you can sharpen your knife
Offer me my deathless death
Good God, let me give you my life”


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“Take Me To Church”

My lover’s got humour
She’s the giggle at a funeral
Knows everybody’s disapproval
I should’ve worshipped her sooner

If the heavens ever did speak
She’s the last true mouthpiece
Every Sunday’s getting more bleak
A fresh poison each week
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We all need to stop looking only outwards….and start looking inwards..

Unless you are looking into your own heart and soul….and dealing with darkness you ‘will’ find there ~ because we ‘all’ have it….you are not being honest.

Those who continually look at others and talk about ‘their’ darkness…. but fail to take the inner journey……

Are simply hypocrites.


And those who don’t believe there is any darkness within…..are very deceived, have big ego issues, lack courage and lack self insight.

It takes great honesty, courage and inner strength to take the real inner journey…..find the darkness, illuminate it and want to get rid of it.

Most people do not have the courage, or capacity for self honesty to take the inner journey…..the ‘real’ inner journey.

Which is sad……..because it is needed for growth, maturity & wisdom.