I see this frequently. In fact, virtually every conversation I have with people (other than my friends), is always all about them and rarely do I get asked how I am doing. Even my husband has noticed this. He agrees that I always ask people how they are doing, how their week is going etc and I genuinely want to know how they are …. and mostly people do not ask back.
Even when something serious happens, a death in the family, some people can make it about them, instead of just focussing on the person grieving.
The levels of selfishness I see in many people, are huge. It’s really tiring and makes me lose interest in people. Continue reading