Remaining neutral in a situation of abuse, is choosing to support the abuser, by default. And this hurts the abused and we have a right to be upset about that. This is not a wise decision and therefore, in no way is Godly. Too many religious people will condone being neutral, will quote Bible passages etc, but if the decision is not wise, then it is not Godly. Jesus stood up for the hurt, the suffering, the abused, the people others ignored. Jesus would never have remained neutral, and neither should we.