Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.

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Looking for professionals, willing to provide feedback for my Website. I will link their Websites, with it.

I have some mental health professionals, willing to provide positive feedback, for my Website

@ http://www.healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd.com/

In return, I am offering to add their Website/Org details, along with the feedback, to be displayed on my Website.

If you are interested, please email me on healingcomplexptsd@outlook.com

Thank you.




I am SO O.V.E.R – people making excuses for abusers.


All my abusers absolutely knew it was abuse.

They all hid it, they would not have done it out in the open in front of anyone, and they all lied about it/denied it.

So, I wish people would stop insulting my intelligence, with all this crap about ‘generational’ abuse, and how they didn’t really know they were abusing me.

People/society/religious people –  can all delude themselves with those lies if they like, to make life easier, to make abuse appear more ‘palatable’ – but I don’t live in denial. Continue reading


What hope is there, when many ‘professionals’ can’t work out what are abusers, really are?

I am seeing a very troubling issue that appears to be pretty common… where mental health professionals, are taken in by abusive people’s manipulation, lies and games..

Which just goes to show, how getting a degree, does not mean someone has insight, or capacity to work people like narcissists out, at all. More added reasons, why abuse continues, when even the ‘professionals’ can’t work out, detect and help the abusers.

This is very troubling to me. Especially when the professionals, will just often dis-regard what the victims is saying, using instead their ‘mental health’ as the perfect excuse.
When often, the victim has a far greater capacity to work out abusive, narcissistic people, than the professionals ever will.
And this will be why victims of abuse, are often be re-traumatised by professionals as well. Because the abuse is minimized, and portrayed as being ‘not that bad’ – by professionals – who have no clue as to the damage these abusive people can truly cause.
I have had so many survivors of abuse letting me know this has occurred to them. Which seriously bothers me, and my desire for abuse survivors to be receiving the appropriate help and support needed….not being re-traumatised and re-victimised, by so called professionals.
Its bad enough trying to deal with the abusers, their apaths, society’s wrong views, ignorance, stigma, all the perpetrator protecting, and religious abuse…..without needing to be concerned with professionals hurting you as well.

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My trust issues, are not about what is ‘wrong’ with me..

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I get so sick of assumptions, that there is something ‘wrong’ with people with PTSD, or Complex PTSD.

After all the abuse, lies and harm I have endured, from birth, from all significant people in my life, including over the last 2 years…I would be a ‘fool’ not to have trust issues.

Not because I think everyone is a liar, who will hurt me.

But, because I know there are many who are liars, who cause harm.

Getting over trust issues regarding

one person harming you…

is very different to dealing with the

harm caused by as many abusive people

I have endured in my life.

Bottom line, I trust no-one.

Never have and probably never will.

My subconscious need to protect myself, is far greater, than my need to potentially allow myself to get harmed again.

And I have tried and been burned, badly. Continue reading

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When Narcissists Claim to be Victims of Narcissists – Who is the Narcissist?

Originally posted on An Upturned Soul:

NPD - ELizabeth Bowen

If you’re searching online for information about Narcissists, Narcissism, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Narcissistic parents, being a Child of Narcissists, an ACoN – Adult Child of Narcissists, being in a relationship with a Narcissist, being a Victim of a Narcissist, How to Play the Narcissist’s Game and maybe win, How to Piss a Narcissist Off (which is one of the most popular search terms in my stats), or any other variation on the theme, you will be inundated with results.

The subject of Narcissism is trending, a Hot Topic.

The internet is bursting with information about it, from professionals, experts in the field, and from people like me who are sharing their experiences and working their way through them publicly.

Why share your private story publicly?

If your particular Narcissist has managed to isolate you and surround you with people who are on their side, then the chances are that…

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