Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

A journey to healing from complex trauma.


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“It’s been a rough week, but I made it..how about you?” Yeah this about sums it up some weeks!

I find humour whenever I can, in this healing journey.

Humour is good, although some days – I can find none, because it is too painful.

But, when I can – I laugh, giggle and find some humour in this journey and it is healing too.


APATHY, EGOCENTRICITY, NARCISSISM – Are the most deadly diseases of modern society.

Sadly, most people, have no insight into this.

And even when you inform them, educate them – they don’t want to know and reject it, ignore it, avoid it – which is exactly what they will do – because they have the deadly diseases.

And these diseases, are right throughout society – and Christianity too.

Sad.

Perfect example today.

“Done nothing to me so I don’t care”.

Truly pathetic and no clue. And proud of it.

Sad. So sad.


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A perfect example of a highly unwise Quote.

A perfect example of highly unwise advice peddled in society…

“Everybody is special. Everybody. Everybody is a hero, a lover, a fool, a villain. Everybody. Everybody has their story to tell.”
– Alan Moore

My response…

“What utter rubbish. Paedophiles, child molesters, serial rapists, serial murderers, harmful and abusive narcissists/sociopaths/psychopaths? Are they hero’s? Are they lovers?

As long as society peddles these unwise views, all the people who are not these things – continue to believe they are fine and don’t need to change.

So many people churn out these quotes and have no clue of the bigger picture. They just say what they want to believe about themselves.”

These quotes – peddled around society, are just so beyond inaccurate and so wrong.

THERE ARE REAONS WHY SOCIETY IS BECOMING INCREASINLY UNHEALTHY – DON’T BE A PART OF THAT!

They encourage unhealthy people (which is the majority of the population – most just don’t know it) – to think they are special and don’t need to change, self reflect or grow.

And this is part of the many reasons, society is encouraging and increasing unhealthy thinking, cognitive distortions, harmful behaviours, abuse, narcissism etc.

BUT THOSE WHO CANNOT SEE THIS, UNDERSTAND THIS AND DON’T HAVE INSIGHT – BUT FEEL ENTITLED TO GIVE ADVICE ANYWAY, CONTINUE, HAVING NO CLUE OF THE DAMAGE THEY ARE DOING. OFTEN JUSTIFYING IT. THEIR EGO UNABLE TO ACCPET THEY ARE DOING WRONG AND OFTEN WHAT THEY ARE DOING, IS SELF INTERESTED ANYWAY.

Yes, these quotes may be what society wants to hear, but they are not what society NEEDS to hear.


**SOCIAL MEDIA ‘QUOTES’ CAUSE MORE DAMAGE THAN GOOD**

—-DON’T FEED THE WILD ANIMALS!!!—-

I see all these quotes about loving yourself, never changing and accepting yourself as you are and not listening to others etc….

And to a ‘small’ proportion of people, they are great advice.

But, they don’t exactly encourage self reflection, personal growth, or self honesty, do they?

And the bigger trouble is there are a lot of unhealthy thinking, narcissistic, psychopathic, sociopathic, abusive people out there – all reading these quotes too.

And they are all the ones that feed on this, and it validates them and they are the ones least likely to know they have unhealthy minds. So they love these quotes.

And that scares the shit out of me – that they all receive the SAME message.

Makes me realise just how inappropriate social media can be.

I think a lot of these quotes can do more damage than good.

And I have been told, social media feeds unhealthy people the completely wrong message.

SCARY!!!!

Takes wisdom to realise this ‘BIGGER PICTURE’.

STOP FEEDING THE WILD ANIMALS!!!